Before we get all deep and meta on this, I just want to do a little myth-busting on the whole topic, so that there's one tiny place on the Internet that someone can go to and remember that self-harm isn't romantic. Recovery is possible, and I've written all about my journey here, but the act of self-harm itself is something we shouldn't make seem hopeful, or happy, or beautiful, because it's not. And if you've never done this (please never do), here's an insight into it that might help you understand things better:

This is a really brave post and so, so important for tackling this huge romanticisation stigma. I can remember this whole 'culture' being created on tumblr and it fucking up the recovery of a lot of people I know. The media doesn't help whatsoever and you're so right about films and TV catering to young and impressionable audiences. It should be talked about more, but in this brutal and honest way with no hint of saviour complex or romanticisation. I'm glad to see that you're working through this and are in a position to write so honestly, stay strong Steph!
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Thank you so much! I know so many people who have been triggered by tumblr over and over again, and I just want there to be a place on the internet where it's not glorified
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